Three Things About Failure

How many times have you heard that failure is just a stepping-stone to success?

Although it is true, it is not very helpful just knowing that little tidbit. The fact of the matter is, just knowing this is simply not enough. It’s not going to actually bring you success and it’s not going to help you become a better leader.

The fact remains that most people are afraid to fail. We’ve been conditioned since childhood that it’s a bad thing. Failing a test in school didn’t exactly get us one step closer to an “A” now did it? Want to start up a new business? Don’t fail. Because if you do you will lose all your capital that you invested in the venture.

Failing at something doesn’t mean that you have no skills or abilities, or you don’t know how to do anything.

Consider this. Failure, after you strip out the emotions, is just feedback. And it’s from this feedback that we should extract the lessons, learn from them, and apply them to our leadership development. Here now are three things that I think we need to consider where failure is concerned.

The Key is Admitting Failure Early

Most of us involved in entrepreneurial or leadership roles find it hard to accept and admit failure. And what’s even harder than admitting that you have failed, is to admit it early. The longer it takes us to recognize the reality of the failure, the harder it will be to make course corrections to avoid future failures. A leader or an entrepreneur’s reaction to failure is truly a valuable skill to keep an organization moving forward.

Failures Can Be Shared Learning Experiences

When Alan Mulally first started as Ford’s CEO, he challenged the members of his team to give an assessment of their businesses units as a “green”, “yellow”, or “red”. They all showed up to a meeting of senior executives with “green” lights. This prompted Mulally to ask the members of his leadership team to come back again next week with a more realistic assessment.

Some held to their “green” light self-assessment. Some dared to indicate they might be “yellow.” However, one person was willing to admit their business unit may be “red.” This acknowledgement was met with a standing ovation from Mulally. Following Mulally’s response they all sat down and together, brainstormed to overcome that problem as a team.

What was Mulally doing? He wanted to create a new culture where people were not afraid of admitting that something may possibly be wrong and a culture where they were not afraid to admit it early. This was to ensure that the organization could have time to come together and have an impact on the probability of success.

Reward the Right Kind of Risk-Taking

Since people are afraid to fail, it stands to reason that people are also afraid to take risks. When your team is too scared to take risks, they will play it safe. And playing safe will not bring your organization growth. The wrong risks can be devastating and could go horribly wrong resulting in huge losses. But a well-planned and executed risk could also go brilliantly, leading your organization to see growth and like it has never seen before.

What is the leadership summary?

I have not failed

The brilliance of these three strategies is that they weed out early failures and they will let your organization learn together from that failure. Better yet, it will bring key feedback early enough in the process to make sure that the initial failure is not fatal to the organization.

Don’t be afraid of failing, and don’t be afraid of admitting it early. Thomas Edison has words for us today that line up with the key leadership principles here. He once said, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”

Question: What about you? How are you dealing with failure? Or are just one of those rare breeds that never fails? You can leave a comment by clicking here.

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  • Janet Johnson

    Wow! No one has commented here? Sounds like we don’t want to admit failure even in this safe forum. So I’ll go first. I fail often (in my opinion). I don’t always admit it to others, though. I fear that as a leader, I will lose respect if I admit failure. Just this week, however, I found just the opposite to be true. I was approached about a situation which someone felt needed to be addressed in the larger team. In fact, it was a situation that I was aware of, and one that I had begun to think through already. I saw clearly that the problem was at least partly due to my own failure to know how to lead in the situation. So, I explained to this individual what I was processing. I shared how I saw the problem, what I saw as the main factors that were influencing that issue, and how those issues had, for me, highlighted areas where I needed to grow as a leader. Immediately, the individual I was speaking with became less tense. While I mentioned a couple of things we might need to discuss as a staff, and set a time for a meeting, no solutions to the problem were reached. Yet, she left feeling much better. Why? I honestly believe it was because I admitted where I had let the team down, and I was willing to bring the situation to the whole team for discussion, so we could tackle the problem together.

    • Kevin Bowser

      I will be brave and ponder out loud if this may be an issue that is is perceived differently by gender? Do you think that gender plays any role in ones willingness to admit failure? Or admit anything for that matter?

      • Janet Johnson

        I don’t know. No one I know likes admitting failure, male or female. But if we were to explore this a bit, I think we might find gender playing a part. That would be a fascinating study.